Get the volume?

I'm a guy and I'm growing my hair long. But I want to have my hair in a specific way.

This is almost exaclty how my hair type is: http://www.hissandpop.com/celebrities/a/...

(a girl, but the only good example I found)

But on another picture her hair is like this: http://www.hissandpop.com/celebrities/a/...

Is it possible to make my hair look like that permanently? I mean without hairspraying it every day.

If I bleach my hair to get it dry and straggly and then permanent to get volume?

I'm a guy, so I don't want a girl haircut but I want the volume she had on the second picture. Hopefully I can get it like this:

Do you think that could be possible?

Get the volume?

try amplify product by matrix and use the shapoo conditioner and the mousse then blow dry